"Nature is an inifinte square, of which the centre is everywhere and the circumference nowhere.

--Blaise Pascal

The success of love is in the loving- it is not in the result of loving. Of course it is natural in love to want the best for the other person, but whether it turns out that way or not does not determine the value of what we have done".

--Mother Teresa

So it was my birthday yesterday;

Happy Birthday to Me,
Happy Birthday to Me,
Happy Birthday,
Happy Birthday,
Happy Birthday to Me.
la la la :P

so it was my BEST BIRTHDAY yesterday, and why BEST coz i got gifts and not just gifts the best gifts ever i had ;>, and i love all the people who have wished me and have kept me in their memories for so long :> and i wanna thank my loved ones for keeping in mind all my fav's and wish-lists this year, as man i'm damn happy ;>

And i pray to Allah that though m happy over my birthday not keeping in mind that my life is getting shorter, i have to keep in mind why i have been sent in this world, i fulfill my duties as a human, try to keep myself as much on the safer side as i can, help those whom i really can and dont interfere in the stuff that doesn't relate to me at all. Allah blesses us all and helps us find ways to keep on seeking the Creator by ways he has set for us on this land.
Wishing my self happy Belated Birthday again :P

Smiles,
Sana

Find the faces you really know and have fun ;)

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*Warning*:This post is entirely based upon some facts and doesnt at all mean that i'm a Bilawal Fan or something, and MIND IT any commentor who pointed upon me for taking sides will then have to bear the circumstances.

So just was roaming around and found out that the Bilawal Fever has lowered down a bit, i thought why not i post my review over all of this. OK! Then firstly i had some questions popping up in my mind. First, Who has spread this rumour that HE IS going to be our Future Leader? i mean come on man he is 19, he still needs 13 years to get eligible for being our Leader? and can we really predict the coming 13 years? and why on earth do we get after those lads who over night get popular, be it our own Bilawal or be it Prince Williams and Hary, they arent the future Leaders in any of the near future ( coz still Charles has a long time to go ). Next who are we to possbily intrude anyone's personal life i mean look here if i randomly pic some pictures and start writting a blog over them pointing out at their stuff stating they are going to be our Futrue bla bla watever so THAT would b intruding someone's personal life but what is the law for those who have taken out Bilawals personal pictures i mean obviously he can sue the reporters who have taken his pics from a famous social circle, and yeah the mark that the reporters are foreigners the case is omitted all together. And most of all look at here at blogistan people are making headlines NUDE PICTURES ooh come on WT* is this u know people that those pictures arent nude this shows how sick minded people they are willing to grab any attention using such Tag Lines.

The major point to remember out here is that Bilawal at all cant be considered as a kid who can be like a normal Paki Kid. OK! and why is that so? The moment Bhutto Kids were born they were dragged in different situations being it that their father was held in jail for 9 years be it being exiled from their own country, since then they have been living lives of nomads, rushing to London from Dubai and from Dubai to London, changing schools, friends, environment. These kids have the same life as some kids whose parents have continuous job transferal problems once they have settled their lives in a new place its time to leave. Then comes another part the kids have been living and studying abroad where they have ample opportunity to meet and mingle with people belogning to different cultures and for kids who are still unaware of their own culture and are in their teens can easily be attracted towards other stuff, arent the kids who are studying in posh schools be it any hi-fi Co-Ed school all over Pakistan if we go and look at their theme parties u will come to know that yeah baby some reall new stuff is going on in here as well. And bout celebraing the festivals that arent a part of our Culture or Reilgion then what bout the concert that On-Aired on one of the Pakistani government channel on Hallowen, with all the dress codes and the set design, cool so its proved we are having double standards eeh.

That kid is studying in Oxford he has some foreign friends with whom he passes his time and have fun, what about those who leave Pakistan at the age of 24( pretty mature ryt) for MBA n stuff and they end up having a blast in UK or USA and why would that be? just cause they have mingled with the people adoptiong plenty of their stuff, if u go and check out their pics if found at any of the social circle ull really find the similarities or may be even more then that. Why do we really have double standards? If ur siblings or offsprings are having the same fun as he is then whats the bloody difference anyways? This was the whole mess rounded up in my mind and the irritatingness that why on earth are people calling it as NUDE pictures i mean do they really know what NUDE means? was he shown doing some adultry in the pictures or what that the people are getting so offensive, and yeah just keep a check at ur kids and siblings might be that next time their pics are being targetted and harassed without notification.

Im a bit disappointed in what has happened with me n one my friend who is new to this blogging world, i mean i still coudlnt figure out why is this happening. The thing was i had a friend who was good at writting but somewhat she didnt xplore this thing so i sat down and thought to persuade her towards writting and she agreed, i even told about different blogging platforms where u can register and they broadcast what is there written in ur blog and Pakistani Bloggers was one of those blogging stations, as for us Pakistanis it is the only National Platform.

My friend just wrote a few pieces and i told her the steps to get registered along with site addresses and she did as i told her, and i even saw her blog being registered and the link being published on the Main page of the site, but to her and mine surprise the blog vanished in a couple of hours from not only the Main page but also the post was being removed from the Bloggers Forum? and the one who took that place was the Old Pakistani Spectator but with a new look ( guess they have bought their own domain or something). My friend asked me what was the problem and i was amazed too as in why something like dis has happened because by the time i had registered my blog i didnt experinece any such thing, i even read the rules and regulations of the Pakistani Bloggers and i couldnt find any such thing over there as well, coz she isnt a spammer nor does she has explicit content in her blog, and i kept thinking and still im that as in why is this happening. Then she requested me if i can try and post a new topic about her blog in Bloggers Forum as only her post was removed till now and not the registration. I logged in through her account and made a new topic in the Forum and again it appeared on the Main page, so it was good. But the next day the same thing had happened, no clue where the link had disappeared and replaced by the same old shiny Pakistani Spectator. This time it was annoying to see such a thing as it wasnt the 1st time but it was for the second time, as her registrations to other Blog Stations were being successful. I tried to login again through her account but this time the scene was changed completely it wasnt accepting my login specifications stating i had no registration and this time it crept on my nerves. I controlled and tried to register again, filled the form accpeted the terms and entered submit and got the response that ur verification code isnt write. WHAT THE ****, this was the thing i had in my mind when the form kept on rejecting my verification code 5 times consecutively and after that it showed something like u had overcome the provided number of registration trials.

My friend really got hurt by this as she is a newbee in this writting stuff and thought as if her stuff wasnt good enough to get registered. I just wanna ask that we here are trying so hard to gather good educated Pakistani people to come in the blogging world and meet and share their views, have some sort of platform where their work can be portrayed, and what better could Pakistani Bloggers had been but not only she but i too was disappointed because we both tried to register many times. Is it just to keep the TPS on the top are they paying the Pakistani Bloggers to keep them on top, NO i guess not as m not the person who keep blaming things but i really cant get a point what really is happening. I dunno why m stating this all here but may be because some of my friends would help me out in this. As we all know that we need more people in this business

Every time and forth we are struggling with one issue or the other,be it studies,job,personal life, health issues,be it anything. Our greatest foe is time,we have to battle for everything against time and time management is the only thing we need to learn to get rid of these complexities. We can learn about it from various sites,places, by psyciatrist to whom we go to share our problems, but this at all is not possible unless you have the will and full determination to fight back. Time isnt a feeble rival at all it easily tracks your weakness and waits for its right moment to attack back and if at that particular moment your not in the right state of mind you'll be crashed and burnt. So for your strength you have to pump up your mind and start playing your cards right. Remember times victims are those who are foolish enough to get trapped in this silly ensnare.

So i thought wouldnt be a good idea to share those points that i have in my mind, may be that would help some of you out there. I have seen people struggling so hard to complete just the basic tasks in a day,waking up in the morning,trying to reachoffice at time,avoiding to yawn at office that alerts the upper management who keep an eye weither ur here to sleep or to work, heading back home again trying to avoid sleep while driving, laundries, pick and drop of children, daily groceries and then pending office work at home even after 5-6 hrs of overtime you have still work pending that has short deadlines. Wherever if we could possibly determine what really our routine is, we can possibly sort stuff out and even have time to do some recreational stuff.

Some points to remember that can be applied by everyone :

1. 
   
   Have atleast 6-7 hrs of sleep as that is the minimum time required to sleep for an adult
2. 
   
   If ur an early waker then getting in bed earlier will b a good thing but if u have to wake around 8:30 or 9 then sleeping late till 1:30 can be accomodated.
3. 
   
   Planning what has to be done before sleeping, making points and taking a quick summary of what has happened the previous day and what left has to be completed
4. 
   
   Try the most to have control over your anger, yeah i know most of u would be thinkng what anger has to do with time managment then yes it has a very strong connection with it, people waste their time getting mad over stupid things which can be easily be ignored thus resulting in time wastage, and avoid delay in small works
   

   For example: You wake up n see ur 15 mins late then ur usual time for office and then u start blaming ur mom or ur wife for all this whereas they had already tried to wake u up a million times before, whatever next u skip ur breakfast and rush towards ur car or any public transport. Then comes the issue of traffic u get stuck on a busy road that gets u 30 mins late, what if u stumble upon a man on ur way, what happens next u get out of ur car abuse the person waste 10 more mins and eventually u get 45 mins late to ur office. Your boss calls u up gives u a dose and then yet again in anger u start ur daily office work that again gets pending because u couldnt concentrate properly just because u were in rage and were finding ways to kill ur boss.

5. 
   
   Heading back home have atleast 30 mins rest be it of any sort, watching TV,listening to some music, surfing the internet, just dont ask what there is for shopping just after entering the house-door. Have some rest and then decide what has to be done for the remaining time.Make a list of all the stuff that has to be done outdoors, like any groceries to be done or laundry to pick up and etc etc just make a list so that u go out once finish the job and then get back home.
6. 
   
   If u have had ur complete 7 hrs sleep then dont try to have a nap after u come from ur work as this results in loss of sleep when its needed at night.
7. 
   
   Have a tender meal, satisfy ur hunger and then sit down and work on any of the pending stuff u had incase brought home.
8. 
   
   Dont delay ur sleep, as at that time ur work seems to be important but what has been left can be done when u wake up fresh in the morning, and by that time that work can be done in even less time then the usual as ur mind has become fresh after a good night's sleep.
9. 
   
   Have atleast 5 glasses of water minimum as water refreshes ur mind and ur nerves and loosens ur muscles, means it drags away ur laziness, avoid too much consupmtion of tea and coffee because that causes restlessness.

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  Try to offer ur prayers 5 times, and never to delay any of ur salah as if u manage to catch up with namaz u can manage to catch up with any of the other pending work and most of all blessings are upon that person that manages to give time to his Allah between his daily chores.
  

1. 
   
   Have atleast 8 hrs of sleep, 7 hours at nite and one hour of nap when ur back from school or university or whatever.
2. 
   
   Just try to point down the major points during the lecture, dont play lazy during the lecture as the work done at the spot is stamped on ur mind the more u delay the more it gets washed off.
3. 
   
   Have ur meal at a specific time, dont just keep on changing ur eating routine.
4. 
   
   Try to finish ur assignments 2-3 days before the deadline as if u keep on dragging it then it results in tension at the last moment..
   

Many people are writing about how the year 2007 went for all of them, well m too doing one or the same thing. I aint sure weither in this year I as a person have really affected someone means did my presence or did my thoughts help somone out, but for me the presence of a few people owing the most to my best friend has helped me alot through the ups n downs that i had to face the whole year.

Allah blesses all of us Ameen